October 22, 2026

Every person starts somewhere different. Find your room here.

Hey Reader,

You checked your calendar on Sunday night. Monday holds the staff call. Tuesday holds the volunteer meeting. Thursday holds the planning session. Your weekend holds three roles before noon, and your name appears on none of the lines meant for rest or for your own work.

When I was going hard in my business, my name never showed up on my calendar! Working 30+ hours doing massage barely left me with any time to schedule my own massage - until I made myself a priority.

You want a week with space for your own assignment, but that space never appears because you measure yourself by how many requests you answer.

Two kinds of weight sit in your week. Shared weight belongs to a community, and members lift the weight together. Your own load belongs to you, and no one else carries this load. When you sort your week into those two groups, your answers become clear.

On Tuesday, October 27th at 8:00 PM ET, you spend 75 minutes live on Zoom writing your Personal Ministry Boundaries Plan. You'll practice the exact sentence to say, leave with one boundary to put in place within seven days, and receive lifetime access to the replay. The investment is $47.

The session provides faith-based education and practical exercises. The session does not provide counseling or treatment.

Save your seat: https://workshop.shelbyfrederick.com​

Dr. Shelby Frederick

Upcoming Events, Classes, Workshops

Serving Without Losing Yourself October 27th | 8:00 pm EST | LIVE on Zoom A 75-minute live workshop for women in ministry leadership who feel guilty every time they say no. Learn More

HEADSTART 2027 Sat., November 14 and Sat., December 12, 2026 Make room for your 2027 vision. Two live virtual working sessions. Session one: Review 2026, name your vision, and release what does not belong in 2027. Session two: Write your quarterly map, set your weekly rhythm, build your scorecard, and schedule your first 30 days. Learn More

Prayer and Plants: Casting Our Cares (1 Peter 5:7) Join host Win and guest speaker Shelby Frederick for a women’s gathering with herbal education, tea, aromatherapy, and Scripture-centered prayer. Sat., November 14 and Sat., December 12, 2026 Date: Saturday, December 5th, 2026 Time: 2pm-4pm Location: 4000 Lake Center Dr Dayton, OH 45426 Donations reserve your ticket. Learn More

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